If you’re a marriage minded young lady this oil will help to make that very clear to the men around you.  If you are a “bad girl”, but don’t want people to know that, or need to shake off your past, or want to cover up your dirty deeds, you can also use this.  Just a word of caution though, this may prevent men from seeing you as a prospect for sex alone, so it may close the door to a possible relationship with someone who just isn’t ready yet but may become ready after close contact with you.  It may also attract men whose intentions are not entirely honorable, but who prefer a good girl to exploit.  So you will still have to use good judgement and keep your protections secure and up to date.  Remember that Nature gives both “predators” and “prey” gifts to fulfill their needs.  Use all of yours.

This oil will also help you to appear to be more innocent in other situations.

If you are a female who prefers males, you will need:

• 1 10 ml. vial
• 1 small piece of jet, onyx, or black obsidian
• 1 small piece of quartz
• 1 small diamond
• 1 small ruby
• 1 small square of gold leaf
• a fingernail tip sized bit of tonka bean or about a 2cm bit of a vanilla bean
• 10 drops frankincense essential oil
• 10 drops myrrh essential oil
• 5 drops rose absolute or attar
• 1 drop aloeswood oil
• 1 very slight touch with a toothpick of balsam Peru essential oil
• carrier oil to fill the rest.

If you are a feminine male who prefers masculine males, you want to make the repelling of casual sex seekers more aggressive, so you will need:

• 1 10 ml. vial
• 1 small piece of black obsidian
• 1 small piece of red obsidian, red slag glass, or a very pretty red glass bead (it needs to be some sort of red glass that has had more fire than normal)
• 1 small piece of smoky quartz
• 1 small diamond
• 1 small ruby
• 1 small square of gold leaf
• a fingernail tip sized bit of tonka bean or about a 2cm bit of a vanilla bean
• 10 drops frankincense essential oil
• 10 drops myrrh essential oil
• 5 drops rose absolute or attar
• 3 drops of wisteria oil
• 1 drop of lavender oil
• carrier oil to fill the rest,

After your Friday observances, give an extra small offering to your deity of matrimony, home, hearth, and chaste or loyal women.

Starting with the black stone for your Gatekeeper, put each of the ingredients in the bottle with intent.

Consecrate as you normally would such things, but I recommend adding some remnant of your offerings, even if it is just the smoke of the incense, to your oil.

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