Not all of us live in Africa or have the luxury of very attentive mentors or parents to keep us on track. Also, even some initiates did not get adequate training, or simply prefer to do private observance aside of community gatherings. So here is a set of suggestions for…
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When you are trying to make a pregnancy happen, it is important to give special observance/offerings to the deities who make that happen. This will vary by tradition. In Zindoki and other west and central African belief systems though, we believe that the physical and spirit realm overlap quite a…